Before inserting Vesta, make sure you have prepared and cleaned the area, and have your lube to hand. Massage a droplet around your anus and a few more on the toy. You can either choose the vibration setting you like before inserting, use the remote while it's inside, or try without vibrations altogether for a different experience. To help ease of entry, gently push against Vesta's soft tapered tip. Once in, see how it feels and experiment stimulating other body parts noticing how your anus responds to the sensations.